Before parting ways with it, I bumped into a post I found actually unpleasant, despite having made similar mistakes when I was 18 and just starting to roam on the internet. Someone posted a kinda cute art of Steven and Wallace from Pokémon, commenting how they are a "canon gay and trans couple".
NOW. I have nothing against being gay, trans, fetishist of the kiwi or whatever, but stop slapping the word "canon" in front of your goddamned headcanons, please. I'll give you a "lesson" about storytelling, and how to be a SANE part of a fandom.
Canon means "as told by word of god". This means there's an original story, written by its original author. In the story, both characters NEVER DISCLOSE THEIR SEXUAL PREFERENCES. In any way. You know why? Because it isn't fucking relevant to their characterization or story or plot. As for their genders, they're both male. End of the story.
If we actually wanted to consider the Pokéspe comic, we'd discover Wallace fucked Winona in that canon, so he's het alright, at least to that canon.
Headcanon means: something is not really disclosed by canon, so I CAN FILL THE GAP IMAGINING SHIT. It's fun. I swear, it's fun. It can get really cringey and retarded, but it's fun.
LOTS of people nn Tumblr have headcanons of Steven, or Wallace, or other characters, are asexual, autistic, gay, trans. Why do you have to slap weird shit on them if it's not even vaguely suggested by the original story? I can vaguely understand the "Steven is ace!" one, because all of Hoenn is lusting around him, and he just cares about the main character, Wallace, his father, his steel Pokémon, and rocks. Oh, and his own whims. So, people think he doesn't like sex.
What if he just isn't interested in a stable relationship because he just wants to chase pretty rocks, fight strong trainers, travel, and do whatever the fuck he wants without being burdened by responsibilities?
Headcanons shoould vary from person to person, I'm actually SCARED by how people seem to think as a hivemind about those things. Do you even have some imagination left? Zinnia would scold you! But still, if you say it's "headcanon", which means you imagine it because you like the idea, it's perfectly fine. Just don't use the word "canon". The "autistic" one actually makes me ashamed for them, it's like, after they knew about Asperger's, autism became cool. No, not cool. It's disabling shit, even when you're high functioning, so stop slapping random labels.
One more word: learn to distinguish between the two. Damn it all, I'm an Originshipper myself, but what the canon gives me is not them being a couple, but them being really close and loyal friends. I'm the one making the leap in my mind, but I don't lose contact with reality and with what the actual story shows me.
They're basically not canon gay, not canon trans, not canon ace, not a canon couple. Think whatever the fuck you want, just shove your "canon" word up your ass. And keep the cringe to a minimum, for the love of what's sacred.
I always believed that shipping a couple or loving a character shouldn't mean you only care about finding r-18 stuff about it, or writing fanfiction/drawing fanarts, writing random drooling emoticons on the internet. You should make sex with the source material that gave you the couple/character. Learn as much as you can about it, analyze it. You would obtain this:
- Fangirls/boys wouldn't be seen as shallow, as they are now. Shipping wouldn't be frowned upon. If you are a poster who actually discusses in an interesting way about things you like, people are less likely to think that you're a superficial person for shipping or fangirling.
- If you study the source material, you will know how to draw decent fanart/write decent fanfiction. At least, if you actually take the time to carefully analyze and dissect lore, settings, plots and characterizations of the original work, it will be less likely that you write idiotic, made up, and out of character shit in your fanworks. You might make something better than the original.